Why Child Abuse Is Getting Common Day By Day?

Why Child Abuse Is Getting Common Day By Day?

29 Ιανουαρίου, 2022 0 By admin

21st century, century of dynamics and innovations, a century where might is right. In this era, every single thing has been accelerated to meet the daily requirements of life either we talk about the progress or we talk about regress. With the accelerating problems of daily routine the most speed gathering problems mention “social crimes” on the top of the list.

Social crimes are today’s most trendy problem faced by the individuals.A hand picked collection of social crimes can be discussed but the basic focus of today’s article is ” child sexual abuse”.

After hearing the term ” Child sexual abuse” the only thing that strikes one’s mind is an ample expression of sorrow.

According to latest research about 1-3% of children suffer CSA.The most common factors for this reprehensible crime includes:

*Parents

*Society

International Journal of Children’s Rights, Michael Freeman, also argues that the most common causes of child abuse lie in prejudice against children, especially the view that human rights do not apply equally to adults and children. He writes, “the roots of child abuse lie not in parental psycho-pathology or in socio-environmental stress (though their influences cannot be discounted) but in a sick culture which denigrates and depersonalizes, which reduces children to property, to sexual objects so that they become the legitimate victims of both adult violence and lust”

So coming towards the point, who should be blamed for the ground gaining CSA? According to my opinion the society and lack of healthy parenting are equally offensive.Growing children need the parental support and guidance necessarily where as they lack this guidance on the virtue of bucks or selfishness of parents and as far as the society is concerned it plays a significant role in promoting CSA by making slogans like

“Who’s gonna marry an abused girl? ”

“Be quite, it’s the matter of our family dignity.”

“What can we do for you.”

Abuses happen when a child hasn’t been told about the safety and protection of himself which is the result of a unhealthy parenting. Parents fail to respect and protect their child which results in such crimes,lack of communication is also a significant reason behind this.

To stop this reprehensible crime we need to gain healthy parenting tactics on the prior as a victim may only reach out for help once. If a child says he’s scared believe him. And most importantly we should make a shut up call to the society slogans. Enough is enough, enough tears, enough secrets, enough pains, enough silences,enough violences now.